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Akkeri Podcast Episode 3: Fathers, Fathering, & Friendship with Matthew Denis
The Akkeri Podcast - Episode #3
May 8th, 2024
Fathers, Fathering, and Friendship with Matthew Denis

What was your relationship with your father like? Maybe it was somewhat strained, like mine, or maybe it was idyllic. The relationships boys have with their fathers have obvious impacts on the men they later become, but it also affects how they form relationships with other men and how they fill the role of father, if given the opportunity.

In this episode of The Akkeri Podcast, I chat with longtime friend, Matthew Denis. Matt and I both lost our fathers to cancer and we discuss what our relationships with them were like, the societal and cultural factors that likely shaped them, and the important role of grace and empathy in relationship.

Matt has always been someone that I can easily have a laugh with, but I can just as easily dive into whatever is going on in my life and find a listening, supportive ear (even though he hasn’t listened to the podcast yet and didn’t know how to spell Akkeri). I hope this conversation is encouraging, inspiring, and maybe even a little entertaining (appreciation for sarcasm required).

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